As the most successful Astrologer, Spiritual healer, Raaqi and Witch Doctor in Kenya and beyond I have met alot of people with different problems, today I shall tell you the Story of Ann Mutheu a lady from Ukambani.
This is a story of a woman from Ukambani who could not get along very well with her husbands parents,
these parents never liked this lady because they thought their son deserved a “better” wife.
She narrated to me how the husbands parents used to humiliate her while his husband could not do anything about it they would use very offensive language and derogatory words to describe her.
This lady was not from a wealthy family and this was one of the reason that the husband’s parents thought she was
just a gold digger looking to fleece their son and walk away, when she came to my office I could see that she was ready to give up and walk away from her husband she could not take it anymore this was too much for her all the insults and humiliations started affecting her self confidence.
How to Solve This Situation
This is a very sensitive situation which need some intervention to help Ann Mutheu out, I told her that she had done a great job by not trading insults with the husband’s parents because they are like her own parents. This lady loved her husband but due to interferance from the parents she was willing to let that love die. The second thing I did was to get the husband involved as you may have noticed he never protected his own wife from his parents’ attacks, the husband needed to stand up for his husband a make it clear to the parents that the wife is also their own and they need to treat her with dignity and respect as they would wish other people to treat their own daughter.
Keeping your distance: When people live together they are likely to quarrel from time to time so moving away from the parents homestead ensures that everybody has their space
and you also give the parents a chance to miss you.
Ask Family Elders To Talk to them This is one of the last result option, if everything fails ask the elders to organise a meeting between you and the husband’s parents so that you can iron out all the issues that might be bothering you and them this way everybody will understand their boundaries.
There also other spiritual remedies that I discussed with her that I will not mention here, In general this incident captures the situation in which many women find themseleves nowadays when the get married by “Mama’s Boy” the parents feel that they will nolonger have control over their son and his affection as they used to have before. For the ladies always show respect to your husband’s parents not matter their foul language never confront them and for the men out there please protect your wives do not let your parents mock and humiliate them.
Dr. Sharif Ayub East African Astrologer
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