In some cases it is a very bad idea to get back with your Ex Lover there are many situations that can warrant a permanent separation from your ex-lover I shall mention just a few. If this ever happens don’t blame yourself for the actions of your lover because they are their own person and are capable of making decisions for themselves and it is not your fault that they acted the way they did.
- Abusive Relationship (Physically, Verbally or Emotionally)
If your ex-lover was abusive to you physically, Verbally or Emotionally then you need to stay away from this type of person because such behaviour will only be suppressed by the person and manifested at a later point in the relationship. There is no reason to abuse your lover in any way and if such cases exist in your current or past relationship you need to move on even if you still love this person and they still love you it could end up in a bad way. The only way you can reconcile is if you have had children together and for their benefit, you need to work together in raising them into responsible people. Remember you can collaborate in raising your children but that does not mean you have to live together.
2. Cheating Was the Cause of Your Beak Up
If you broke up with your ex because he/she cheated on you there is a good chance he/she will cheat on you in the future some people may not care about this but this is very real in the world we are living in today you don’t want to be caught up in multiple relationships. If they have promised to change for the good then you can give them a chance but if that is not the case and they are still in denial don’t be surprised if you find out that they betrayed your trust again.
There are a dozen other situations but today I had to highlight the above two.
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